Role models aren't just for kids.
Adults, too, need people who inspire, challenge, and encourage us to grow. Whether it's through their creativity, leadership, or integrity, role models help shape our perspectives and often offer guidance during difficult times. As we age, our role models evolve, and we tend to look up to people who demonstrate qualities we admire, such as resilience, authenticity, and kindness.
For me, an enduring role model has been Jack White, the creative force behind the White Stripes.
Are you old enough to remember the White Stripes? If you don't know the band, you certainly would recognise their hit song Seven Nation Army. It's one of the few rock songs from the post-2000 era that's become an anthem, as iconic as tracks like Nirvana's Smells Like Teen Spirit was in the 1990s.
I first heard the White Stripes through Elephant, the album that featured Seven Nation Army. I loved Elephant so that it alone would have made the White Stripes a soundtrack of my university years; the two excellent follow up albums they released in 2005 and 2007 just sealed the deal.
Growing older as a fan of rock music can be a heartbreaking thing. So many of the people I looked up to as role models in my younger days have ended up in pitiful or tragic ways, and a whole lot more of them have turned out to be, in hindsight, not such great people. Of the plethora of bands I used to listen to and love, there are only a handful whose music I can still enjoy.
The White Stripes have always been one such band.
I've always appreciated the White Stripes direct, raw energy. Jack White's creative approach is experimental, but there's an underlying ethos of simplicity that makes the music accessible and punchy. Anyone who has heard Seven Nation Army or any of the many other hits Jack White has been behind will know exactly what I mean. There's a reason so many companies license them for commercials.
But there's more to Jack White's influence than just his music. As I reflect on his career, I realize there's a side to him I hadn't fully appreciated at the time: his manners, humility, and respect for others. In interviews, Jack is thoughtful and generous, consistently acknowledging the work of those who came before him. He embodies a sense of decency that stands out in a world often dominated by brashness and arrogance.
In a genre like rock, which has often been associated with machismo and rebellion, Jack White stood out as an oddball. His wholesome midwestern persona, contrasted with his eccentric fashion and unique stage presence, came off as weird in the early 2000s. I'm saying not just to remember my own feelings, but how people would talk about him in online message boards at the time. But what felt geekish back then was actually a strength—Jack White wasn't afraid to embrace gentleness and respect, qualities that are often overlooked in the rock world.
He was never afraid to show his appreciation for female artists. The White Stripes' music often featured a strong partnership between Jack and Meg White, his then-wife. One of their live staples was a cover of Dolly Parton's Jolene, where Jack would sing the heart-wrenching lyrics of a jilted lover, proving his willingness to step outside traditional gender roles in rock music. Throughout his career, Jack has collaborated with legendary artists like Beyoncé, Laura Branigan and Alicia Keys, proving that his respect for music transcends boundaries.
At the height of the White Stripes' fame, Jack wrote and recorded an album with the 1970s country icon Loretta Lynn. It ended up being one of Lynn's most successful albums, but for White it was all about paying respect to his elders.
Since moving to Paris, I've had the privilege of seeing Jack White perform live twice, both in smaller, more intimate venues than you'd expect for an artist of his stature. White's decision to play in smaller venues isn't about the money; it's about the experience, and that's something I deeply respect. And what an incredible experience it is. The most recent concert at La Cigale in February had only a 900-person capacity, and it was absolute magic, as it was when I saw him in 2022 at l'Olympia. The energy, the passion, the sheer connection between he creates with the artist and the audience— felt spiritual.
Interestingly, both of the concerts I attended had a heavy presence of women and Gen Z fans, which is rare for many of his contemporaries. This speaks to White's ability to transcend generations and connect with people from all walks of life. It's not just his music that resonates, but his integrity as an artist and a person.
That said, it's important to remember that Jack White isn't perfect. Like many of us, he has his flaws. There have been moments when his temper has gotten the better of him, revealing a side of him that's touched by the toxicity often associated with masculinity in the music industry. And yet, this only makes him more human and relatable. White's not afraid to show his imperfections, but he constantly strives to be better and to make a positive impact on the world around him.
Jack White may not be flawless, but he inspires me not because he's perfect but because he genuinely seeks to improve both himself and the world. As a role model, he stands as a testament to the power of authenticity, creativity, and decency.
In a world where the actions of our idols can often leave us disillusioned, Jack White has remained a constant source of inspiration. His music, his approach to life, and his commitment to artistic integrity are qualities I aspire to emulate. So, here's to Jack White—thank you for the incredible music and the even greater inspiration.
Whether you're an artist, entrepreneur, or just navigating life's challenges, having role models can provide direction and motivation. Jack White serves as a reminder that even in a world that often values fame and fortune over authenticity, there's still room for decency, humility, and respect. It's never too late to find or rediscover a role model who can help you navigate your personal or professional journey.
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