Winter is (finally) coming ... to an end!
Spring Fever and Self-Care: What Warmer Days Really Mean
Winter is (finally) coming ... to an end!
Can you feel it?
There's just a little more light at the end of each workday. You might have spotted the first blossoms on the trees or found yourself standing outside a little longer than usual, noticing that the air doesn't bite quite so hard anymore.
I know I've taken a photo or two that gave me that warm feeling — the kind that says, "you made it to the other side."
I'm sure we are all still following the wise French proverb:
Ne te découvre pas d'un fil au mois d'avril, en mai, fais ce qu'il te plaît
(In April, don't take off a thread, in May, do as you please.)
So yes, we're still keeping on the jacket, it'll soon be t-shirts and café terraces and longer days that make you feel like anything is possible.
What more is there to say about self-care, then?
Actually, quite a lot.
After 14 years of perpetual summer in Singapore, I've seen how living with seasons really does people. In some ways, spring represents light and ease, like slipping into a warm bath after a cold winter. But it's also a shift. A real one. And like any shift, it's worth paying attention to.
So, what is spring fever anyway?
The French have a name for it: la fièvre printanière.
In English, we just call it spring fever, but it's more than just a poetic phrase. It's a real phenomenon. With the increase in daylight and temperature, your brain starts producing more serotonin. You might feel more awake, more motivated, more flirtatious even. You may also find yourself itching to make big changes or take spontaneous actions. It can be a bit like drinking a triple espresso — energising, but maybe a little too much if you're not grounded.
That's not necessarily a bad thing. This energy can be wonderful. But it can also sweep you up if you're not careful. Which is why I wanted to share a few gentle thoughts about how to meet the season with both joy and awareness.
It's a great time to get things moving again
One of my favourite spring rituals is clearing out my cupboards. I don't just mean tidying them. I properly empty them, wipe down the shelves, sort through what I no longer need, and donate whatever is still in good shape. It's a satisfying but demanding task, one that feels easier to do now than it does in the middle of winter. The sense of "let's go" in the air helps.
You might find it's the perfect time to dust off a project you left behind, or to gently kickstart something new. Maybe you want to get back into running. Or maybe you're thinking about where your career's heading. It doesn't have to be big or dramatic — just ask yourself, what's been calling to you quietly that you now feel more ready to listen to?
Try this: Choose one small thing that's been on your mind lately — something that got dropped, paused or postponed. Set aside a short window of time this week to revisit it, with zero pressure. Just see how it feels.
Soak up the sun... mindfully
I grew up in Australia where the sun is strong and the risks are very real. My maternal grandmother died of skin cancer, and that's unfortunately a common story where I'm from. I grew up with the "Slip, Slop, Slap" campaign — slip on a shirt, slop on sunscreen, slap on a hat. It stuck with me.
These days, even in spring, I often wear long sleeves if I'm out in the sun for a while. And it still feels great to be outside. Maybe even better, knowing I'm looking after my body.
So yes, get outdoors, bask in the warmth, but keep your skin safe while you're doing it.
Watch for the sneaky side of spring energy
There's a kind of buzz that comes with this time of year. And while it can help you move forward in wonderful ways, it can also push you into overdrive. You might suddenly find yourself wanting to do everything — all at once.
From overbooking your calendar to making spontaneous decisions you later regret, spring can sometimes carry us away a bit. That's why I try to slow down on purpose. I remind myself that I don't have to do it all. That resting is still important. That sleep matters just as much now as it did in winter.
And then there's the temptation to spend, indulge, commit — all from a place of spring sparkle. It's totally human. But it always pays to sit with a decision overnight, especially if it involves money, big plans, or your heart.
If a decision is still a good one next week, it doesn't need to be made today.
Spring can be sexy — just take it slow
This one is for the single people. You might already be noticing the shift. Dating apps get busier in spring. People start smiling more on the street. Flirty energy is in the air.
While spring invites us to connect more, keep in mind that for some people, dating is seasonal. Fling in the sunshine, hibernate in the cold. So if you've recently met someone who gives you butterflies, wonderful. Enjoy the ride. Just keep one foot on the ground. Give yourself permission to let things unfold without rushing to name anything too fast or emotionally over-invest yourself.
Finally, a little note about old habits
For those of us who've struggled with moderation — with substances, spending, even screen time — spring can be a tricky time. Social invitations pick up. There's more energy around. It's easy to slip into old patterns without meaning to.
That's not a reason to shut everything down. But it is a reason to stay aware. If you know certain environments aren't great for you, steer towards the ones that are. Daytime hangs. Nature walks. Movie nights. Anything that brings connection without the hangover.
A Spring Invitation
Here's what I'd love to leave you with:
What would it look like to meet this season with intention?
What's one small way you can move forward with joy and care?
Want more?
Here's a little spring wellbeing worksheet to help you reflect and reset for the season. It includes:
A mini journaling page
A mindful spring cleaning checklist
Reflection prompts for energy, connection and habits
Let the light in. Breathe it in slowly. And trust yourself to bloom at your own pace.
There's a subject I haven't spoken about directly on my channel until now: sex.
I want to start with a feeling I think we all know. It's that sense of emotional whiplash. That feeling of being perfectly calm one moment, and then suddenly thrown into a storm of noise, pressure, and obligation the next. It's disorienting. It can make you feel like you've lost your footing, or even your connection to yourself.


